I recognize that we are born with certain abilities and should not overly praise ourselves for them, particularly because they come to us effortlessly. The real endeavor lies in honing and adapting these innate talents to fulfill their intended purpose: to serve others.
Throughout my journey of acknowledging and harnessing my mentoring skills, I've learned pivotal lessons. I've come to respect each individual's unique timing for growth and change, even when it's difficult to watch them head towards potential ruin. Patience has been key, and fortunately, many find their way back.
I've also mastered the art of communicating effectively with those I mentor, ensuring I'm understood. Equally important, I've learned to offer my consultancy without prejudice to anyone seeking guidance. This inclusive approach has enabled me to assist them in navigating their options, weighing the pros and cons, and once they've settled on the best course, I encourage them to pursue it with determination.
The joy of witnessing my mentees attain a fulfilling life position is unparalleled, a sentiment that transcends any monetary value.
This reciprocal dynamic, rich with benefits for both parties, symbolizes the essence of my mentor-client relationships.
This course is designed to empower individuals navigating separation and divorce by equipping them with essential skills for achieving mental and financial stability during this challenging time.
Participants will learn how to approach the legal process with confidence, communicate effectively with their attorneys, maximize the productivity of their legal consultations, and maintain emotional resilience throughout the journey. The goal is to create a smoother, more peaceful experience for both them and their children.
If you are preparing for or currently navigating a legal separation or divorce—whether self-represented or supported by legal counsel—this course is invaluable. It equips you with the tools to achieve a fair and mutually beneficial resolution while protecting what matters most to you and your family, including harmony in your home, your financial stability, the mental and emotional well-being of you and your family.
It’s important to remember that discussing your emotions with your attorney might not be the best approach.
Lawyers are primarily focused on handling the legal aspects of your case. While they may empathize with your situation, they may lack the expertise or time to address emotional concerns effectively. Additionally, bringing up emotional matters during legal consultations can lead to higher legal fees, as you'll be billed for the time spent on these discussions.
Instead, consider turning to Mindful Negotiators for emotional support during the separation and divorce process.
This program is part of the “Extended Client Care initiative”, which we collaborate with lawyers and law firms to provide enhanced care for their clients throughout the divorce proceedings.
As a benefit company, we are dedicated to serving the community. Through this initiative, we aim to address critical issues such as overcrowded courts, limited access to justice due to financial constraints, and the mental health challenges faced by both legal professionals and the parties involved. This course is designed to unravel the complexities of conflict, fostering quicker resolutions with minimal emotional and financial strain for everyone involved.
These Classes are designed to:
- Teach individuals how to properly conduct themselves during separation and divorce to achieve success
- Teach individuals how to effectively communicate with their attorney and express their needs and concerns more effectively.
- Teach you how to effectively communicate with your ex-spouse regarding matters concerning children and property division.
- Coach you before you enter into your next relationships to avoid complications during the legal process.
- Remind you that legal proceedings take time and sometimes many years, so we will equip you with practical strategies to manage the normal stress and anxiety during this waiting period.
- We will foster in you a positive mindset to face this legal battle with resilience, especially if the case goes to trial.
- The classes also serve to share experiences, gain strength and find the encouragement you need during this transitional time in your life.
Together, we’ll empower you to face this journey with strength and assurance, turning challenges into opportunities for growth!
Trimester 2 and 3 - Winter and Spring 2025 open for registration.
Send an email to info@mindfulnegotiators.com
Lawyers, consider the emotional and financial well-being of your clients and recommend the Mindful Negotiators SKILLS FOR DIVORCE course to them.
IMPORTANT NOTE: Out of respect for our fellow lawyers and the professional restrictions established by the Law Society, no legal advice will be provided in these classes. This is a course where participants learn crisis management skills and life skills that can be applied during separation and divorce, share personal experiences, recommend lawyer services, available public services, and offer mutual encouragement.
"I have gone through a pretty messy separation and, like most people, I had no idea what I had been signed up for. About a month into the ordeal, I found myself in a pretty unpleasant and dark mental state and it became increasingly harder to stay focused at work and raising my two girls, who was not a product of this failed relationship.
Good professional help is limited where I live, specialized support with mental wellness and personal coaching is even harder to find, so I resourced to the online world. I consider myself lucky to have come across Marcia who provides guiding and wellness/mental health support for situations like the one I found myself in.
My first impressions was, “Wow, maybe her approach is a little too straight to the point?”, but that could not have been further from the truth, and her words produce excellent results in us. It's like magic! After I have provided her with a brief summary of my situation, she has prepared me mentally for pretty much everything I have encountered up to this point.
Her expert and professional experience in this field is priceless and a necessity for anyone who is going through a messy divorce or separation, at least for the first time. It was an absolute benefit to have Marcia on my side." (David B. - Vancouver, Canada)
"Having Marcia guiding me throughout my divorce process was critical to my mental health and the success of my separation agreement. During the whole process, her presence was essential so that I didn't ruin everything. She was that person whose role it was to keep my emotions in check, and she trained me to focus only on the legal part of the process. She gave me advice on how to deal with my ex to minimize conflicts, and with her guidance, our separation process became less stressful for my entire family." (A.C - Brazil)
You may hesitate to use your law society’s mental health services due to concerns about being associated with mental and emotional issues. Similarly, you might be reluctant to inform your company’s human resources department about this temporary health condition which can permanently stain your employment record and prevent you from being promoted to a higher level.
You deserve to receive help in a private and secure manner while safeguarding your professional reputation. I understand this, which is why I have established this service exclusively for legal professionals and business executives. Here, you will find the privacy and support you need to overcome this situation.
Marcia was my Coach in the past. At that time, I had no more perspective on life and her guidance was essential for me not to sink into that situation.
She took me out of that black hole I was in and helped me fight for my life and my dreams.
I then had the courage to move to a big capital to look for a better job and a better life.
Now I'm returning to be her client for the second time because I see her as a safe haven. A person I can count on. And in just one week of this second series of coaching I'm doing with her, she's already helped me increase my monthly earnings, because she showed me that I wasn't valuing myself. She then quickly gave me this homework to solve. And kept encouraging me until I had the courage to resolve the issue. Now that I've sorted this out, I feel happy and relieved.
I'm curious to know what I can achieve with all this encouragement I receive from her. It's really amazing to have her as my Life Coach.
M.A. (BRAZIL)
Marcia has been my Mentor for over 10 years, since the day she came into my life when she dropped everything to help me, a stranger to her, who was going through a very difficult situation where I needed to make difficult decisions and she arrived in my life like an angel with her unique way of taking on others' problems as her own, and since then I can only thank God for having her in my life. With her experience, guidance and patience to help, I can say I learned a lot from her. She inspires me a lot as a woman.
C.D.(CANADA)
Marcia is a person who is always giving me good advice and teaching me to look at things positively, not to lose faith and to persevere. She has been a good influence in my life and certainly is for everyone around her.
J.C. (PORTUGAL)
Marcia is a lioness in my life that drives me to fight for my dreams, and with her friendly but strong way of coaching, she manages to make me dream again and accomplish the things I want in life.
I.M (BRAZIL)
I have been coached by Marcia for several years and only she could extract secrets from me that I had not told anyone, because I felt safe in opening up my heart to her. She taught me the importance of having my soul cleansed of all my past traumas. Today she remains that lioness in my life that drives me to fight for my dreams, and with her strong and friendly way of coaching, she really manages to make me dream again and accomplish the things I want in life. I.A. (BRAZIL)
Marcia is a true, reasonable and sensitive person who manages to absorb the world around her, giving us excellent life guidelines. I consider myself a difficult person to deal with and I almost never listen to the advice of others, but I respect the advice she gives me and I always analyze it and try to apply it in my life because I know she was appointed by a greater force to help people around her.
M.G. (BRAZIL)
Marcia has the innate ability to help others by speaking the truth, even if the truth hurts to hear, she has the courage to speak, but she speaks with a lot of love because she is passionate about seeing people well, growing and succeeding in life. She plays many roles in my life, as a coach, as a sister, as a mother, because she helps me grow by walking alongside me, and she wants to help me in all areas. I mean, ALL areas. If I allowed it, Marcia would change my whole wardrobe, my decor, my way of eating Lol, because she really cares about us as a whole. She has been my mentor for years and all of her advice was accurate, although some of them I ignored, and after a while it proved to be the right advice for me, and obviously I paid a price for not listening. She has a divine view of situations. It must be a gift from God.
M.P. (CANADA)
Marcia has been my counselor, my psychologist, my life coach for several years; An authentic person who teaches with love, simplicity and mastery. Her guidance led me to my truth and helped me to no longer make decisions that hurt me and block my happiness. She cares about people as a whole and even gives me financial advice. Had it not been for her advice I would have gotten into a huge debt that I was about to get into, but that decision was being made at a time of emotional imbalance and she could identify this huge mistake with her wisdom and warned me of the danger, and I am extremely grateful to her for that and everything else. Her love for people is definitely genuine.
A.C. (BRAZIL)
I contacted Marcia on her Instagram because I was very depressed and I thought she would be the ideal person to help me, and after doing a coaching session with her for 3 hours I woke up to life! I was impressed with her words! She really has a gift of encouraging people. Marcia is a virtuous and wise woman, in addition to being a simple and loving person who really wants to see us well.
Y.V. (BRAZIL)
I had the pleasure of meeting Marcia in person when she was here in Brazil in August 2024 for the Mediation Brazil event, and I found her to be a super competent professional. I also noticed how friendly she was with everyone. She is totally passionate about her missions and very responsible with everything. She was taking care of the whole event. She really is a natural coach, always helping everyone and giving good advice.
What's more, she has an incredible energy that you really want to be connected with her.
I am very grateful to be in this network with her and with everyone else.
I am sure that her leadership will bring incredible results to this project!
Thanks Marcia for using your life to serve your community!
M.E (BRAZIL)